24 January 2026
Let’s be honest—most of us have either said it or heard it before: “I’m just not a math person.” Sound familiar? Yeah, that little line has crushed more confidence and created more mental roadblocks than we realize. But here’s the thing—it’s not true. It’s a mindset. And the good news? We can change that mindset.
So, if you’re a parent, educator, tutor, or even just someone who wants to break free from the fear of algebra and equations, pay close attention. We're diving deep into how to encourage a growth mindset in math, and trust me—it’s more than just positive thinking.
Let’s break it down, simplify the complex, and get real about how we can help kids (and adults) stop fearing math and start loving it.
And this concept, introduced by psychologist Carol Dweck, is a game-changer—especially in math, where so many students feel stuck or defeated before they even begin.
On the flip side, a fixed mindset says, “I’ll never be good at math no matter what I do.” A growth mindset responds, “I’m not good at this... yet.”
See the difference? That tiny “yet” packs a punch.
Math anxiety starts early. One mistake, one red X on a test, and boom—confidence shattered. Unlike reading, where mistakes are more acceptable, math is often treated like you either get it or you don’t. That pressure builds, and before you know it, kids start checking out.
So, how do we fix this? Simple. We flip the script.
Seriously, if your student—or your child—is making mistakes in math, it means they’re engaging with it. And that’s a good thing. We need to stop painting mistakes as failures and start seeing them as stepping stones.
So, the next time a student flubs a problem, respond with:
- “Awesome try! Let’s figure out where it went sideways.”
- “What do you think happened here?”
- “Great effort. This is how we learn.”
By de-stigmatizing mistakes, you create a safe space for learning—exactly what a growth mindset thrives on.
Why? Because when we praise intelligence, students start tying their worth to their performance. One tough math test and suddenly they think they’re not “smart” anymore.
But if you praise effort, strategies, persistence, and progress, you’re reinforcing what actually matters—things they can control.
Use phrases like:
- “I love how you kept trying even when it got tricky.”
- “You used a smart strategy there.”
- “You really stuck with that tough problem. Nice work!”
This builds resilience, encourages effort, and keeps them focused on growth—not perfection.
Encourage goals like:
- “I want to try all the problems, even the hard ones.”
- “I will ask one question when I’m confused.”
- “I’ll practice math facts for 10 minutes a day.”
These goals celebrate effort, courage, and persistence. They shift the focus from just getting "right answers" to growing abilities.
Remember: Progress over perfection—every single time.
Talk about famous mathematicians who struggled. Share your own math flops. Let them know that even geniuses weren’t born knowing everything.
Did you know Albert Einstein failed an entrance exam? Or that NASA engineers make thousands of calculations to get one rocket right? These aren’t folks who magically knew math—they worked at it.
When kids understand that struggle is part of the journey, they feel less alone—and more empowered.
- “I don’t understand fractions… yet.”
- “I can’t solve this equation… yet.”
It turns a dead end into a detour. It keeps possibilities open and shows that growth is possible. So use it. Often. Make it part of your math vocabulary.
But what if “hard” wasn’t something to avoid, but something to embrace?
When students hit a wall, don’t let them give up. Say:
- “Hard just means your brain is stretching.”
- “This is a sign you’re learning something new.”
- “If it was easy, you wouldn’t be growing.”
Think of it like a workout. You don’t build muscle by lifting feathers. You build it by pushing against resistance. Same with math.
Instead, bring math to life:
- Use real-life examples kids care about (money, sports, gaming stats).
- Incorporate games, puzzles, and hands-on activities.
- Let them explore why things work—not just memorize formulas.
When students realize math is connected to the world around them, it becomes meaningful—and way less intimidating.
Maybe one student draws a diagram. Another might break the numbers apart. Both methods work—and both deserve celebration.
This tells students that creativity and problem-solving matter as much as the answer. It also shows that math is flexible, not rigid—and that’s empowering.
So model what it looks like to struggle and bounce back.
Say things like:
- “Wow, this is tough, but I’ll figure it out.”
- “I got that wrong, but now I know how to fix it.”
- “I used to hate fractions, but now I understand them better.”
Be honest. Be human. Show them that growth is a lifelong process—even for adults.
These wins fuel motivation. They remind kids that progress is happening. And nothing builds confidence quicker than seeing how far you’ve come.
So clap, cheer, do a happy dance—whatever it takes to show them that growth matters more than grades.
It's about showing students that math is not about being “smart”—it’s about being brave, persistent, and open to learning.
And when that mindset clicks? Watch out. Because suddenly, math doesn’t stand a chance.
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Math SkillsAuthor:
Bethany Hudson